5 Myths of Childrearing
How you educate or care for your children? You must know in advance what impact the merits of the children, if you get the patterns of parenting as you did. Many assumptions about parenting that turns out not to be used as the handle again. Here are five examples:
1. About lying.
Threaten children with punishment when he was lying, would make him reveal the truth.
This myth is no more relavan. This will only make your baby look at matters in a selfish concept. So the best way to prevent this lie is to say, “I would love if you want to tell the truth.” Children will learn that there are other reasons for not lying. And this is the way to start.
2. About self confidence.
Praising the child will improve her confidence.
Always state that your child smarter every time he showed his work is also not always good. You indicate that any errors that have the potential to embarrass himself to be avoided. Little also will stop trying everything, even though it is not so difficult. Further, your actions will send a message that the child’s efforts are not important as long as he is smart. Praise effort, not a figure of the child.
3. About intelligence. A talent of child will be seen before the age of 5 years.
This myth is absolutely not true because many children above 5 years of the new show talent.
4. Cartoons that aired on television it must be good for their age.
Cartoons are childish impression, but not necessarily good for them. You might think that a movie that shows mutual sharing and caring attitude will not make them become aggressive, compared to when they watch violent movies. However, children are very young are often not able to capture the lessons to be conveyed at the end of the film. Thus, all conflicts that show bad behavior not addressed the child as something to be changed, but rather as instruction on how to behave.
5. As a parent, you must ensure there is no tolerance at all about the acts of bullying, including taunting, calling it by a bad call, and leave him.
Everyone must know that bullying can give a very bad influence, even deadly. But ridiculing or ignoring other children in the playground is part of a normal (or even pleasant) of the process he developed. If the child being ridiculed, he can certainly learn how to deflect or overcome them.

